YOU ARE ONE DECISION AWAY

LIVING A FULFILLING LIFE

THE BEST DAYS OF YOUR LIFE

IS STILL AHEAD OF YOU

 

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The challenge…

The courage to ask the question – why?

After years of chasing ¨to fit in¨, making every effort not to get in trouble, being on time, not losing, not losing out, and daily stress to make it, I finally stopped.

I asked the question: Why?

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Alive, but …

Living the life of another…

Why do I run like I do, always chasing the deadlines and needs of others?

Why do I use my time, my life, and my efforts to ensure others are happy at the expense of my own desires?

Why do I stress about things I cannot control?

I asked myself if none of the things I do contribute to my life, other than making sure I do not lose my only source of income, or making others happy or not angry, why do I do this…

It feels as if I am living, but I am living the life of others.

Making sure they are happy or at least not unhappy with me, making sure they are comfortable and reach their deadlines and goals. I realized I became a sacrificial lamb for the happiness of others.

ALL MEN DIE

NOT ALL MEN LIVE

FACING REALITY …

Alive but not living…

There is a saying that goes all men die, but not all men live.

I am alive, but I live the life of others.  I do not actually live.

What will make me feel alive and live a life of fulfillment? What do I really want?

I started to write frantically about what I wanted in my life. What is the life I really wanted to live?

designing my life…

What do I want?

After making my list, I could compile it into four simple lines.

  • I wanted to experience life instead of just existing.
  • I wanted a life with reduced stress or no stress at all.
  • I want to feel content with who I am
  • And importantly, I wanted to know that tomorrow is taken care of.

 

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the biggest moment….

Stop and ask this question…

Here is the shocking truth about my reality, I realized that up to now, I only existed for the sake of the demands and needs of others, but I never really lived.

Sometimes, to live the life we want to live,

We need to stop and ask,

Why do we do what we do,

And what is the life you really want?

Next you have to ask the question WHY?

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